@Simonite does not have a master valve, unlike the configuration within this topic, so there is no need for a relay in his case.
@janderson the reason why you can’t run both controllers at the same time with your setup is that you are physically isolating the commons. This is not strictly needed as long as only commons are shared.
This has been proven in another topic
You can get both your controllers running at the same time by joining commons from your relay’s terminals 3,6 and 9. This should work as long as the original AC power supplies are used.